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¹æ°ú ÈÄ ¾ÆÀ̸¦ ÇȾ÷Çϴµ¥ ¾ÆÀÌÀÇ Ä£±¸ ºÎ¸ð°¡ Ç÷¹ÀÌ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ½ÃÄÑÁÖÀÚ°í Çϸ鼭 ¾ðÁ¦°¡ ±¦Âú°Ú³Ä°í ¹°¾îºÃ½À´Ï´Ù. ¡°3½Ã 30ºÐ ÀÌÈÄ¸é ¾ðÁ¦µç ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.¡±¶ó°í ¸»ÇÏ°í ½Í¾ú´Âµ¥ ÀÌ·± ¸»Àº ¾î¶»°Ô Çϳª¿ä?

 

                       

 

¡× ¿µ¾î·Î ÀÌ·¸°Ô !

¡°3½Ã 30ºÐ ÀÌÈÄ¸é ¾ðÁ¦µç ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.¡±¶ó´Â ¸»Àº ¡°Anytime after three thirty will be fine.¡±À̶ó°í ÇÏ¸é µÇ°Ú½À´Ï´Ù. ÀÌ¿Í À¯»çÇÑ Ç¥ÇöÀ¸·Î ¡°How about after three thirty?¡±, ¡°I can come after three thirty.¡±µîÀ» ¾µ ¼ö ÀÖÁö¿ä.

 

¸¸ÀÏ ¡°¾ðÁ¦µç  ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.¡±¶ó°í ¸»ÇÏ°í ½Í´Ù¸é À§ÀÇ Ç¥Çö¿¡¼­ 3½Ã 30ºÐÀ̶õ ¸»À» »« ³ª¸ÓÁöÀÎ ¡°Anytime will be fine.¡±À̶ó°í °£´ÜÈ÷ ¸»ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. 

 

¹Ì±¹ ºÎ¸ðµéÀº ÃʵîÇб³ ÀúÇгâ, ÇÁ¸®½ºÄðÀ̳ª Ų´õ°¡Æ° ¶Ç´Â ±× º¸´Ù ¾î¸° ÀÚ³àµé À» À§ÇØ ºñ½ÁÇÑ ¿¬·ÉÀÇ ¾ÆÀ̵é°úÀÇ ¶Ç·¡ ±×·ìÀ» ¸¸µé¾î Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®(playdate)¸¦ ½ÃÄÑÁÖ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸¹ÀÌ º¼ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. °¡±õ°Ô ÀÖ´Â ÀÌ¿ô, Çб³, ¶Ç´Â °ú¿ÜÈ°µ¿À» ÅëÇØ ¸¸³ª°Ô µÇ´Â ¾ÆÀ̵éÀ» ´«¿©°Ü º¸¾Ò´Ù°¡ ºÎ¸ð¿Í ¾à¼ÓÀ» Á¤ÇÏ°Ô µÇÁö¿ä. 

 

Ç÷¹ÀÌ ±×·ìÀ» Áö¼Ó½ÃÅ°±â À§Çؼ­´Â ºÎ¸ðµéÀÇ ½Ã°£°ú ³ë·Â ±×¸®°í ¸¹Àº Àγ»½ÉÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÔ¿¡µµ ºÒ±¸ÇÏ°í °è¼Ó  À¯ÁöµÇ´Â ÀÌÀ¯´Â ³ë·Â ±× ÀÌ»óÀÇ ±³À°Àû, »çȸÀû È¿°ú°¡ ÀÖ´Ù°í ¹Ï±â ¶§¹®ÀÔ´Ï´Ù. ¾ÆÀ̵éÀº ¶Ç·¡ ±×·ì ¼Ó¿¡¼­ÀÇ ¾î¿ï¸²°ú °¥µî µîÀ» ÅëÇØ ÇÑÃþ ¼º¼÷ÇÑ »çȸ¼ºÀ» ¹ßÀü½Ãų ¼ö Àֱ⠶§¹®ÀÌÁö¿ä. ±×¸®ÇÏ¿© Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Á¶¾ð ¹× ¶Ç·¡ Ä£±¸Ã£±â µîÀÇ ´Ù¾çÇÑ À¥»çÀÌÆ®µéÀÌ ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ» º¼ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù.

 

ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ »çÀÌÆ® µî¿¡¼­ °øÅëÀûÀ¸·Î ¸»ÇÏ´Â ¼º°øÀûÀÎ Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ¸¸µå´Â ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¼Ò°³ÇØ º¸°Ú½À´Ï´Ù.

 

1. Plan ahead.

Áý¿¡¼­ ÇÒ °æ¿ì Àå³­°¨ µî ³îÀÌ¿¡ ´ëÇÑ °èȹÀ» ¹Ì¸® ¼¼¿ö¶ó. 

2. Have constant supervision.

 °è¼ÓÀûÀÎ ¾î¸¥ÀÇ °ü¸®°¨µ¶ÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù.

3. Don't overmanage the playdate.

- Å« ¹®Á¦°¡ »ý±âÁö ¾Ê´Â ÇÑ ¾ÆÀÌµé ³îÀÌ¿¡ ³Ê¹« °ü¿©ÇÏÁö ¸»¾Æ¶ó.

4. Make sharing easier.

   - Àå³­°¨°ú °°Àº ¹°°ÇÀº ÇÔ²² °øÀ¯ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î ÁغñÇ϶ó.

5. Look for playmates with a similar temperament.

   - ¼º°ÝÀÌ ºñ½ÁÇÑ ³îÀÌÄ£±¸¸¦  ã¾Æ¶ó.

6. Broaden the range of friendships.

   - À̵û±Ý ¿¬·ÉÂ÷°¡ ³ª´Â Ä£±¸µé°úµµ ³î·Á¶ó.

7. Evaluate what works and what doesn't.

- Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®°¡ ³¡³­ ÈÄ ÁÁ¾Ò´ø Á¡ ³ª»¦´ø Á¡À» »ìÆì º¸¾Æ¶ó.

 

¡§ Dialogue

A: Can we set a playdate for our kids?

    (¾ÆÀ̵éÀ» À§ÇØ Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ÇÒ±î¿ä?)

B: Sure, I¡¯d like to.

    (±×·³¿ä, ÁÁ¾Æ¿ä.)

A: What time will be good for you? 

    (¸î ½Ã°¡ ÁÁÀ»±î¿ä?)
B:
Anytime after three thirty will be fine.

    (¼¼½Ã ¹Ý ÀÌÈÄ¸é ¾ðÁ¦µç ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.)

 

¡§ Extra Expressions

When do you have time?

(¾ðÁ¦ ½Ã°£ÀÌ ÀÖÀ¸¼¼¿ä?)

I¡¯d love to, but not today.

(±×·¯°í ½ÍÀºµ¥ ¿À´ÃÀº ¾È µÇ°Ú¾î¿ä.)

How about Wednesday next week?

(´ÙÀ½ ÁÖ ¼ö¿äÀÏÀÌ ¾î¶§¿ä?)

I¡¯ll pick you up after school tomorrow.

(³»ÀÏ ¹æ°ú ÈÄ¿¡ µ¥¸®·¯ °¥°Ô¿ä.)

That will be fine with me.

(ÀúÇÑÅ×´Â ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.)

We¡¯ll come to your house.

(¿ì¸®°¡ ´ìÀÇ ÁýÀ¸·Î  °¥°Ô¿ä.)

Let¡¯s meet at Ramona Park at two o¡¯clock.

(¶ó¸ð³ª °ø¿ø¿¡¼­ 2½Ã¿¡ ¸¸³ª¿ä.)

 

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