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¡°3½Ã 30ºÐ ÀÌÈÄ¸é ¾ðÁ¦µç ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.¡±¶ó´Â ¸»Àº ¡°Anytime after three thirty will be fine.¡±À̶ó°í ÇÏ¸é µÇ°Ú½À´Ï´Ù. ÀÌ¿Í À¯»çÇÑ Ç¥ÇöÀ¸·Î ¡°How about after three thirty?¡±, ¡°I can come after three thirty.¡±µîÀ» ¾µ ¼ö ÀÖÁö¿ä.
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¹Ì±¹ ºÎ¸ðµéÀº ÃʵîÇб³ ÀúÇгâ, ÇÁ¸®½ºÄðÀ̳ª Ų´õ°¡Æ° ¶Ç´Â ±× º¸´Ù ¾î¸° ÀÚ³àµé À» À§ÇØ ºñ½ÁÇÑ ¿¬·ÉÀÇ ¾ÆÀ̵é°úÀÇ ¶Ç·¡ ±×·ìÀ» ¸¸µé¾î Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®(playdate)¸¦ ½ÃÄÑÁÖ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸¹ÀÌ º¼ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. °¡±õ°Ô ÀÖ´Â ÀÌ¿ô, Çб³, ¶Ç´Â °ú¿ÜÈ°µ¿À» ÅëÇØ ¸¸³ª°Ô µÇ´Â ¾ÆÀ̵éÀ» ´«¿©°Ü º¸¾Ò´Ù°¡ ºÎ¸ð¿Í ¾à¼ÓÀ» Á¤ÇÏ°Ô µÇÁö¿ä.
Ç÷¹ÀÌ ±×·ìÀ» Áö¼Ó½ÃÅ°±â À§Çؼ´Â ºÎ¸ðµéÀÇ ½Ã°£°ú ³ë·Â ±×¸®°í ¸¹Àº Àγ»½ÉÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÔ¿¡µµ ºÒ±¸ÇÏ°í °è¼Ó À¯ÁöµÇ´Â ÀÌÀ¯´Â ³ë·Â ±× ÀÌ»óÀÇ ±³À°Àû, »çȸÀû È¿°ú°¡ ÀÖ´Ù°í ¹Ï±â ¶§¹®ÀÔ´Ï´Ù. ¾ÆÀ̵éÀº ¶Ç·¡ ±×·ì ¼Ó¿¡¼ÀÇ ¾î¿ï¸²°ú °¥µî µîÀ» ÅëÇØ ÇÑÃþ ¼º¼÷ÇÑ »çȸ¼ºÀ» ¹ßÀü½Ãų ¼ö Àֱ⠶§¹®ÀÌÁö¿ä. ±×¸®ÇÏ¿© Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Á¶¾ð ¹× ¶Ç·¡ Ä£±¸Ã£±â µîÀÇ ´Ù¾çÇÑ À¥»çÀÌÆ®µéÀÌ ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ» º¼ ¼ö ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù.
ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ »çÀÌÆ® µî¿¡¼ °øÅëÀûÀ¸·Î ¸»ÇÏ´Â ¼º°øÀûÀÎ Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ¸¸µå´Â ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¼Ò°³ÇØ º¸°Ú½À´Ï´Ù.
1. Plan ahead.
– Áý¿¡¼ ÇÒ °æ¿ì Àå³°¨ µî ³îÀÌ¿¡ ´ëÇÑ °èȹÀ» ¹Ì¸® ¼¼¿ö¶ó.
2. Have constant supervision.
– °è¼ÓÀûÀÎ ¾î¸¥ÀÇ °ü¸®°¨µ¶ÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù.
3. Don't overmanage the playdate.
- Å« ¹®Á¦°¡ »ý±âÁö ¾Ê´Â ÇÑ ¾ÆÀÌµé ³îÀÌ¿¡ ³Ê¹« °ü¿©ÇÏÁö ¸»¾Æ¶ó.
4. Make sharing easier.
- Àå³°¨°ú °°Àº ¹°°ÇÀº ÇÔ²² °øÀ¯ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î ÁغñÇ϶ó.
5. Look for playmates with a similar temperament.
- ¼º°ÝÀÌ ºñ½ÁÇÑ ³îÀÌÄ£±¸¸¦ ã¾Æ¶ó.
6. Broaden the range of friendships.
- À̵û±Ý ¿¬·ÉÂ÷°¡ ³ª´Â Ä£±¸µé°úµµ ³î·Á¶ó.
7. Evaluate what works and what doesn't.
- Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®°¡ ³¡³ ÈÄ ÁÁ¾Ò´ø Á¡ ³ª»¦´ø Á¡À» »ìÆì º¸¾Æ¶ó.
¡§ Dialogue
A: Can we set a playdate for our kids?
(¾ÆÀ̵éÀ» À§ÇØ Ç÷¹À̵¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ÇÒ±î¿ä?)
B: Sure, I¡¯d like to.
(±×·³¿ä, ÁÁ¾Æ¿ä.)
A: What time will be good for you?
(¸î ½Ã°¡ ÁÁÀ»±î¿ä?)
B: Anytime after three thirty will be fine.
(¼¼½Ã ¹Ý ÀÌÈÄ¸é ¾ðÁ¦µç ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.)
¡§ Extra Expressions
When do you have time?
(¾ðÁ¦ ½Ã°£ÀÌ ÀÖÀ¸¼¼¿ä?)
I¡¯d love to, but not today.
(±×·¯°í ½ÍÀºµ¥ ¿À´ÃÀº ¾È µÇ°Ú¾î¿ä.)
How about Wednesday next week?
(´ÙÀ½ ÁÖ ¼ö¿äÀÏÀÌ ¾î¶§¿ä?)
I¡¯ll pick you up after school tomorrow.
(³»ÀÏ ¹æ°ú ÈÄ¿¡ µ¥¸®·¯ °¥°Ô¿ä.)
That will be fine with me.
(ÀúÇÑÅ×´Â ±¦Âú¾Æ¿ä.)
We¡¯ll come to your house.
(¿ì¸®°¡ ´ìÀÇ ÁýÀ¸·Î °¥°Ô¿ä.)
Let¡¯s meet at Ramona Park at two o¡¯clock.
(¶ó¸ð³ª °ø¿ø¿¡¼ 2½Ã¿¡ ¸¸³ª¿ä.)